Dating App Management
Hire a US-based assistant to run your dating apps.
$25 an hour, in packages of 10, 15 or 20 hours a week. We handle the profile, the swiping, the messaging, the follow-up and the scheduling, and we keep going until a date is on your calendar. You just show up.
No pressure. We’ll tell you if it isn’t worth doing.
Almost everyone is stuck in one of two places
They’re different problems and they need different work. Most people try to fix the first one when they actually have the second.
Not enough quality matches
The profile isn’t doing its job, or the swiping is too sporadic to build any momentum with the algorithm. Nothing downstream can fix a top of funnel that isn’t filling.
Matches that never become plans
Conversations open well, drift for four days, and quietly die before anyone suggests a time and a place. A better bio does not touch this. It is a follow-through problem.
The whole pipeline, not just the profile
Most services optimise your profile and hand the conversations back to you. We carry it all the way to a confirmed time and place.
- Profile optimizationPhoto selection, prompts, bio and overall positioning.
- Daily swipingAgainst your stated preferences and dating goals, every day, not in bursts.
- Conversation managementFrom the first message through to a time and place being agreed.
- Follow-up and re-engagementStalled and inactive matches get worked, not written off.
- Date coordinationLogistics confirmed: when, where, and a reply that says yes.
- Schedule trackingActive conversations, upcoming dates and pending follow-ups, all in one place.
- Weekly KPI reportingThe five numbers below, every week, so you can see what’s working.
You see the numbers, not just the outcome
When a number moves the wrong way, the approach changes. That’s the difference between someone managing your apps and someone just using them.
Ten years of watching how these platforms behave
Hinge, Tinder, Bumble, Match and Instagram each reward different behaviour: how often you’re active, how fast you reply, how a conversation is paced before it stalls. Ten years across them is the difference between messaging well and messaging in a way the platform rewards.
$25 an hour. US-based. You pick the hours.
Every hour is logged against the work above and reported back weekly.
Steady daily activity, full conversation handling, weekly reporting.
Higher daily volume, faster follow-up on stalled matches.
Maximum coverage, same-day follow-up, priority scheduling.
Most people start at 10 hours and move up once they see the numbers. Here’s how that compares to the rest of the market.
This is a fit if:
You’re busy, you’re serious about meeting someone, and you’ve accepted that the apps are where that happens now. You’d rather pay someone to run them properly than keep doing it badly at 11pm.
It isn’t a fit if:
You want someone to pretend to be you on a date, you’re looking for guaranteed outcomes rather than a managed process, or you’re not comfortable with someone else writing your messages. That last one is a real objection and it’s fine if the answer is no.
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Fifteen minutes to see if it’s worth doing
We’ll look at your current profile, work out which of the two problems you’ve actually got, and tell you which hour package fits. If it’s not worth it, we’ll say so.